Thursday, May 23, 2013

FORGIVE AND FORGET

WHO DO YOU THINK IS MORE FORGIVING WHEN IT COMES TO CHEATING MEN OR WOMEN

8 comments:

  1. Neither one. Cuz people say they forgive but throw it in ur face the first time they get a chance. People also never forget so all future actions in a relationship is based off of that one time either of them cheat

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  2. I think women are more forgiving because many men have a mindset that once someone else has had their girl, they are somehow forever 'tainted'. This, regardless of how many others they may have had.

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  3. a woman is cuz some woman go though hell and back many times over just for the love of a man....we deal with so much bull from a man that it is not funny.....no mater what ya'll do to us we still stand strong and loven u.....some man do not see that....they keep pushin us....and after awhile we become something we do not even see until we stop and think wow wait all the bull I been put though has truned me into a bitch or a cold hearted woman....we forgive but it lays in the back of or mind and we learn not to trust man.....1 ace.....love always java

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  4. Geez- All three of the responses are so true! Would have to agree with the first two the most-
    No one ever forgets, yet a man thinks someone else has 'infiltrated' there domain- that it has been irrevocably damaged... Where are is their d#*k has been somewhere- its not damaged-- when neither really are (barring disease)--

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  5. Women forgive men faster than they think cuz we are so in love we don't see them hurting us and we try so hard to kEep are family together.

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  6. I don't think its human nature to forgive we let go but never truly forgive

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  7. It all depends on the individual. Some people (female or male) are more forgiving than others. Overall I'd have to say men are forgiven more for cheating than women are.

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  8. I would have to agree that women are more forgiving. There are so many stereotypes concerning the acceptance of men "sowing tbeir oats". It is almost expected thruout the world (and for many many generations). Whereas with women, the expectation is that they turn a blind eye. To forgive.
    Whether we, as women, choose to forgive is an individual decision. Some choose to because tbey are hopelessly lost searching for the unattainable fairytale. Some for the hope that it is now out of their mans' system. Or because their self esteem is already so low that they are willing to accept this is their destiny.
    Whether forgiven or not (by the man OR woman), the memories are forever. The pain. The distrust of the other gender.

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