I'm 50/50 on that even though im not married because it has a negative an positive aspect I believe. I say negative because sometimes those single friends try to give you advice from a single persons p.o.v. It's also positive because they can learn from you what builds a stable relationship for a platform into the possibility of having a strong marriage.* Buttahbaybee *
If you are secure in your relationship (whether its a marriage or a bf/gf thing...either or) than who a person has as a friend should not be an issue. If the person with the single friend of an opposite sex crosses a line (whatever the other deems appropriate) then there is an issue. Its all about security and respect with the person you're in a relationship with.
well I got single friends of the opposite sex but I kinda keep them at a distance......ya never know what they really tryin to do.....had a couple attempts at my relationship
I think it is OK if the friend is a friend to both partners, and everyone is on the same page with a trusted respect for the marriage, if the marriage is strong, they can have all the single friends in the world, if there is ill intent, will only b a loss to the friend once it is found out
well here is how i see this goin down...are u ready for all dis...hold tight and keep ya hands and arms in the ride at all time lol....yes u can have a single friend of the opposite sex...but u need to keep em to at bay...due to the f act feelins do change...that is one that is not in stone....the one thing u can count on is something to change....feelings grow stronger for a friend the most time u spend with them....so yes it is so hard....u do not know who u can trust andwho u can not....u may look at them as a freind or fam....but they might see something that u are nothing willin to give....but as for me yes i can do that...cuz i am faithfull to the one i am with cuz what looks goodto u is not always good for u.....u can not go throught life with the same sex friends just cuz a fear u or ya lover has of lossin u....keep ya head right...if it was made to be then it will be....nothing stays the same.....just watch to who u let inside ya sircunfrance point blank.....stay true to ya self and what u believe in not what others think or say it not there life it belongs to u.......that is all i have to say for now...love always java
I think if you put someone on a leash they will act like a dog if you give them freedom they will always come back that's just my opinion