Thursday, November 22, 2012

COUGARS VS OLD MEN

WHY IS IT SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE FOR OLDER WOMEN TO DATE YOUNGER MEN AND THEY GET CALLED THINGS LIKE COUGARS AND ITS NOT A BIG DEAL BUT IF A OLDER MAN DATES A YOUNGER WOMEN THEY GET CALLED DIRTY OLD MEN AND CRADLE ROBBERS WHAT DO YOU THINK

5 comments:

  1. Well I have always dated older guys and nothing was ever said because they are always pretty close to my age. Now if people are like 8 or more years apart I just think that's nasty, and the people must have a sick mind or fantisy. The oldest one I dated was 3 years and 12 days older then me. People who date other people that are years apart make me wounder if they wouldn't go for children if there were no laws..... some people are just sick

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  2. I don't think that's true- I have seen guys 1/2 my age. They share my outlook on life and live life in a more enthusatic way, than men my own age. In NO way am I attracted to children-- that IS a sick thought! Why it is thought that about men vs women-- don't know :s

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  3. I think it depends upon the age difference but
    Society has stereo type for all scenarios it was it if they over eighteen then they can do what they want period!

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  4. Walk around Manhattan: sugar daddies left and right. Where's the sugar mommas at?? Like Chappelle and Oprah

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  5. It's not that it's NOT socially acceptable for a December/May relationship... its just that they're old. Old news. Boring. They've been around for too many generations.
    But if you think about the relationship between a young man of consenting age, and a couger... there are so many positive aspects... both parties are in their sexual peak. The young men learn what a woman truly wants and are willing to provide. The couger is having her needs met (not just sexually, but emotionally, and intellectually just to barely touch the surface of the true relationship) which makes her turn around and meet his willing and unconditionally.
    And, its a sign of progress. That women are no longer going to allow themselves to be hidden in someones closet. That society needs to accept that we have thoughts, needs, and wants just like any man... and we are not afraid to go after it
    Just for the record... there is nothing wrong with being a couger. We are not searching the playgrounds at the local schools for our next cub... we are women who know our wants and needs. We know where to go to get fulfillment. We respect age (as in we are NOT childhood theives) but we also respect that age is just a number... it should not hold u back from an individuals pursuit of happiness...

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